Reason 1:
You are needy and desperate and lonely and as a result jump into bed or fall in love quickly and hard without doing a proper assessment of the people you get involved with
Reason 2:
You rearrange your plans around him and most of all decisions up to him; hence, basically you wait on his hand and foot
Reason 3:
You walk around on eggshells fearing that you might say or do something to upset him and cause him to stop liking you
Reason 4:
You are easily intimidated when you try to voice your feelings because you feel that you have nothing special or important to offer as a woman besides you always feel insecure
Reason 5:
You deliberately withhold personal information, thoughts and feelings for fear that he will either belittle you or reject you but the truth is you never get close
Reason 6:
You worry so much that your worry creates a sense of helplessness and powerlessness
Reason 7:
You exaggerate your own faults so he actually starts believing he is better than you
Reason 8:
You give of this facade of everything is great and I'm happy but you're not but the cost of pretending is not having a voice
Reason 9:
You privately harbour a great deal of anger that you react to situation as if you’ve been attacked thereby creating constant drama and distance in your relationships
Reason 10:
You are so afraid of taking risks, making decisions or making a mistake that you sub-consciously seek out people who control and dominate you and tell you what to do
Tuesday, 19 August 2008
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2 comments:
: I've been dumped before, Tony. This isn't pain I'm feeling, it's nostalgia.
Your dear Della
(sleep tight Babe)
Beib,
Better ask your female friends to read "He's just not into you" - the wake up call.
A very good book indeed, and i think all woman in the world need to have this book for their guidiance.
meirnathebrave
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