Tuesday 19 August 2008

10 Reasons Men Take You For Granted And Dump You

Reason 1:
You are needy and desperate and lonely and as a result jump into bed or fall in love quickly and hard without doing a proper assessment of the people you get involved with

Reason 2:
You rearrange your plans around him and most of all decisions up to him; hence, basically you wait on his hand and foot

Reason 3:
You walk around on eggshells fearing that you might say or do something to upset him and cause him to stop liking you

Reason 4:
You are easily intimidated when you try to voice your feelings because you feel that you have nothing special or important to offer as a woman besides you always feel insecure

Reason 5:
You deliberately withhold personal information, thoughts and feelings for fear that he will either belittle you or reject you but the truth is you never get close

Reason 6:
You worry so much that your worry creates a sense of helplessness and powerlessness

Reason 7:
You exaggerate your own faults so he actually starts believing he is better than you

Reason 8:
You give of this facade of everything is great and I'm happy but you're not but the cost of pretending is not having a voice

Reason 9:

You privately harbour a great deal of anger that you react to situation as if you’ve been attacked thereby creating constant drama and distance in your relationships

Reason 10:
You are so afraid of taking risks, making decisions or making a mistake that you sub-consciously seek out people who control and dominate you and tell you what to do

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

: I've been dumped before, Tony. This isn't pain I'm feeling, it's nostalgia.

Your dear Della
(sleep tight Babe)

Anonymous said...

Beib,
Better ask your female friends to read "He's just not into you" - the wake up call.
A very good book indeed, and i think all woman in the world need to have this book for their guidiance.

meirnathebrave